22 May 2012

 "Do you merit my attention? ..do I merit yours?"

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  Jody Bean

  Q1: Do I believe that you can help me meet my "3rd-column needs" for: self-esteem, my security, my ambitions, my personal relations, and/or my sex relations? ..or do I believe you're a threat to the same?

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  Q2: Do we share some similarities on which we can co-operatively work?

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  Q3: Do you frame your conversation with a positive or negative energy? ..thinking about negative, are you vulgar, do you gossip (character assassination), prone to selfish motives, ...

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  Q4: Can I learn something from you, either in areas I have little experience in, or areas that I'm fairly competent in?

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  Q5: Do you "share well with others", i.e. allow others to provide feedback on what you say, take turns in conversing, pay attention to interest, or lack thereof, in your audience? ..or are you prone to rambling?

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  (...feel free to sprinkle in your answers, comments, or other questions as you see fit...)